It is actually tough to pretend as if nothing had happened but it comes with experience as I believe as of now. Sometimes unknowingly we get tested to some simple issues where our character gets to prove its originality. Actually these simple issues are those that effect and define our attitude and other related things.
That day when I was asked if we were in relation, it didn't stun me, as it was expected and I am much aware and ahead of it. I can simply say no but I didn't reply as I felt it was unneeded and as I felt proud to give an explanation for such silly thoughts which I never cared of.
But, the world, the people around us are much crazier to discuss such and bring an optimum rumor into existence, which finally happened. As far as we are clear and had belief in each other, it was never a concern. But to my belief some simple issues really get big onto us by adding stuff and thus become challenging.
I was smart enough in making her believe that its a bull shit stuff again and made the issue open to her. As I never blamed her or I need not blame her because I thought we were equally responsible for whatever the outcome is.
I always thought it was okay for me to face such situations as the gender advantage and my attitude would surely come handy to me in dealing them, but again I feel that the same thing makes her feel for the happening and I never wanted to breakup as we both got much closer than we thought.
So, I decided to distance her to limit those rumors which made the situation take another turn.
That day when I was asked if we were in relation, it didn't stun me, as it was expected and I am much aware and ahead of it. I can simply say no but I didn't reply as I felt it was unneeded and as I felt proud to give an explanation for such silly thoughts which I never cared of.
But, the world, the people around us are much crazier to discuss such and bring an optimum rumor into existence, which finally happened. As far as we are clear and had belief in each other, it was never a concern. But to my belief some simple issues really get big onto us by adding stuff and thus become challenging.
I was smart enough in making her believe that its a bull shit stuff again and made the issue open to her. As I never blamed her or I need not blame her because I thought we were equally responsible for whatever the outcome is.
I always thought it was okay for me to face such situations as the gender advantage and my attitude would surely come handy to me in dealing them, but again I feel that the same thing makes her feel for the happening and I never wanted to breakup as we both got much closer than we thought.
So, I decided to distance her to limit those rumors which made the situation take another turn.
